I heard from one of my old Navy shipmates that the USS Juneau (LPD-10) will be sunk as a SINKEX target this summer. The USS Dubuque (LPD-8) went down the same way back in 2024. Those are the two ships I served on during my enlistment.
I joined in 1996 right after high school. After basic training I was sent to the fleet. I asked for West Coast, and got Japan. I ended up in deck department and became a boatswain’s mate: I worked the deck, needle-gunning, wire brushing, painting over rust, etc. Eventually got put in charge of things I had no business being in charge of as a 20 year old. Being a “Gator Navy” (Navy’s amphibious warfare fleet) boatswain’s mate meant doing a lot of different complex jobs. A lot to learn and a lot of responsibility.
I was a pretty angry and untethered young man during my first year. I did the whole cliche drunken fighting sailor thing. Went to Captain’s Mast a couple times. But then something switched in me. I wanted to drive the boat (7 meter RHIB) and that honor only went very squared away sailors. I applied myself and eventually I was made the ship’s ready lifeboat coxswain. I was in charge of the boat, the boat deck, and drove the boat for all operations. I was good at it, and I loved it.
During my troubled times I remember two people specifically who refused to accept that I was anything less than a good sailor. Bos’n Gray and Chief Jagel. They were hard on me but had my back, and I knew it, and that gave me confidence and room to grow. But it was true of all my shipmates I became close with. We didn’t have the words or maturity back then to describe it, but we cocooned and supported each other. I haven’t seen some of those guys since, but I know I could see them tomorrow and it’d just click back in.
There’s a leadership story I tell more than any other.